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February 2026 Events
By Sammy Ginsberg So many amazing events!!! Excited to share them below by so many amazing creators & organizations!! Trying to focus on Los Angeles City events only – although there are 99 neighborhood councils in LA so that is a lot! I’ve decided to share by neighborhood! Please email me a link to your…
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January 2026 Events
By Sammy Ginsberg This is my first attempt at organizing a calendar listing of events again! I used to do this as an undergraduate and when I lived in London. I’m bringing it back. There are just so so so many cool events in Los Angeles! And Instagram (aka META) SUCKSSSSSSSS as an event sharing…
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Relationship Escalator
from Amory Wellness As shared in the Relationship Anarchy manifesto, our unspoken cultural norms are rooted in patriarchy. In our romantic relationships, the normal trajectory of a relationship is dating, becoming exclusive, moving in together, getting married, and having kids. This is called the “relationship escalator”. While it works beautifully for many, there are some…
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The short instructional manifesto for relationship anarchy
by Andie Nordgren, as published on The Anarchist Library Love is abundant, and every relationship is unique Relationship anarchy questions the idea that love is a limited resource that can only be real if restricted to a couple. You have capacity to love more than one person, and one relationship and the love felt for…
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Candidates for Qualified Relationships
Excerpt from How to Be an Adult in Relationships by David Richo Once we make our relationship choices in an adult way, a prospective partner who is unavailable, nonreciprocal, or not open to processing feelings and issues, becomes by those very facts unappealing. Once we love ourselves, people no longer look good to us unless…
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List of Cognitive Distortions
Creating in reference with Therapist Aid; Dr. Burns; and Psychology Today Below are a list of cognitive distortions, as well as some examples from my personal experiences. Magnification and minimization Definition: Exaggerating or minimizing the importance of events. You might believe your own achievements are unimportant or that your mistakes are excessively important. Example: I…
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Update #8: Processing Current Events
As much as I want to not think about what is going on in the world, it’s pretty fucking hard when it’s happening in your city. Again! I’ve been skimming things as best I can, and trying to engage but in ways that are sustainable (because the reason things are so bad is because they…
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Life Stuff Monthly Reflection
Here’s the template I use for my life stuff monthly reflection. Category What’s Working What’s Not Working Actions Housing Physical Health Mental Health Passion Projects Transport Finances Relationships
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List of Toxic Relational Strategies
Below you’ll find a list of toxic relational strategies, which I have copied from Unfuck Your Friendships by Dr. Faith G. Harper Some questions to reflect and consider! Feel free to comment below: